{"id":91,"date":"2023-07-09T20:08:10","date_gmt":"2023-07-09T18:08:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/?p=91"},"modified":"2023-07-09T20:08:10","modified_gmt":"2023-07-09T18:08:10","slug":"cest-le-ton-qui-fait-la-musique-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/2023\/07\/09\/cest-le-ton-qui-fait-la-musique-2\/","title":{"rendered":"C&#8217;est le ton, qui fait la musique"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Maybe you are familiar with the situation: You had something important to say. And you said it. But the perception was different from what you had intended.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It happened to me recently: I was sure (and I am still sure) it was the right thing to say, but the message did not reach my audience. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eC\u2019est le ton qui fait la musique\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not only WHAT I say, but HOW I say it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our tone, our behaviour, the way we build up an argumentation is a decisive factor if it comes to make ourselves understood. I thought I am an expert, coaching other people for years on exactly this matter \u2013 and again it happens to me, I do mistakes, nobody\u2019s perfect.&nbsp;It\u2019s a never-ending learning process\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dan Wiener, 23. February 2020<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you are familiar with the situation: You had something important to say. And you said it. But the perception was different from what you had intended. It happened to me recently: I was sure (and I am still sure) it was the right thing to say, but the message did not reach my audience. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":55,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-allgemein"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":92,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91\/revisions\/92"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/55"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/3d-behaviour.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}